Ep 18 Piers Cross Boarders Syndrome

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On our podcast Rethinking Trauma and Transition, we are very lucky to have our guest Piers Cross. Piers is a world-leading expert in Boarding School Syndrome, he helps former pupils all over the world to deal with what happened to them at boarding School. • Piers takes on his story of what happened to him and others in his school and what goes on in other schools and how it not only affects the child it also affects the adult and to a certain extent politics. • We talk about the traumas, abuses and neglect that happens in these schools. • If you'd like to work with Piers his website is here: www.Piers-Cross.com • Please support our podcast and CIC • https://www.paidonresults.net/c/60731... • https://www.paidonresults.net/c/60731... • https://bioptimizers.uk/DlQRA • https://www.paidonresults.net/c/60731... • https://thepinkpig.co.uk/QZuuV • Work with us here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ABRH.solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • You can ask Ali and Rich questions via our email: • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • Join our LinkedIn and Facebook pages: • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/company/reth... • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ / ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • You can work individually with us here: • Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • • Rich ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://resilientdefence.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ • You can buy Rich’s books here: • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-H... • ⁠⁠https://www.pete-walker.com/⁠ • 00:00 Our thoughts about the interview with Piers Cross • 02:00 Piers Cross Boarding School Syndrome • 05:00 The privilege of the double bind • 06:30 Neglect Trauma • 09:33 Ages of Children • 13:15 Cracking up, breaking down • 16:56 ACEs impacts the adult • 20:35 Hierarchies and Power Dynamics • 25:50 Following the rules. Shame and Guilt • 27:37 Split Identities • 29:25 Achievements Validation • 31:43 Monastic life • 32:27 How Piers helps his clients • 35:19 The Feeling Wheel, Emotional Literacy Leadership • 38:35 Transactional friendships • 40:39 Experiences of Women and Men • 41:52 Friends are dangerous, Learning to Trust • 45:49 How to get hold of Piers, Books and more • 49:37 ABCD of Boarding School Syndrome • 50:00 Experiences from around the world • 53:18 Scent of a Woman and Spaffing Money • 56:10 Alex Renton • 59:47 What message would you like to give? • 1:02:11 Three Stages of Healing • 1:05:16 What changes to make to the system?

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