What Are Dental Dams and How Do You Use Them During Oral Sex

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Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to use a dental dam or what it is use for? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ • Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and today we bring you hot dam dental dams. Cathy Vartuli, when was your first experience of dental dam? • Cathy: I believe we use saran wrap way back in the day but an actual dental dam was like 4 years ago. • Reid: Really? • Cathy: Yes. • Reid: And what is a dental dam? • Cathy: A dental dam is a protective barrier that was traditionally used for dentist when they were working down your teeth they would put a little hole in it and put it over the tooth in question so you didn’t get things sprayed around your mouth. • Reid: Little bone chips and things like that. • Cathy: It was coopted because it is a protective barrier. • Reid: Because sex geek like to coop things. • Cathy: To use for going down in woman or oral sex. To prevent any transfer of STI’S in... • Reid: So we have many videos in safer sex practices. I like how you can’t read my Sex Geek t-shirt. So we have lots of safer sex practice things you can also go to my website http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and learn about safer sex elevator speech and you can even download a hand out and stuff like that. So when you understand the basics of safer sex and STI’s a lot of things are transmitted from skin to skin or fluid exchange contact. And a barrier basically helps put a literal barrier between skin and helps prevent fluid exchange so if I have herpes and I don’t want to put my partner at risk because they don’t want to put a risk for herpes when I go down on them I can put this over the area that I want to be getting busy with and that way… • Cathy: It helps when you put some lube on the other side. • Reid: We’ll get in more tactics in a minute. But this helps me not expose them if I have oral herpes to their skin so it lessens the risk of transmission because of lessing the risk of exposure This is why you might want to play with something like a dental dam. Now a lot of people think it’s silly or its super awkward. • Cathy: They have ones that you can put over your ears. • Reid: They’re like a little doctor’s mask one they’re not a dental dam that you can smack in your ear. People think that it is silly but I think about using any kind of safer sex implement. If I’m creating more safety and relaxation for my partner because they’re in their head worried about something their sensation they’re not going to be able to enjoy the sensations. So some people think dental dam’s deaden the sensations which is it’s different I’ve gotten lot of people off with dental dams. But what’s more important to me is that they felt more relaxed so that they can be in their body and like you’re saying we’ll teach you things you can do to the dental dam to increase sensation and now that I’m done what do you want to say? • Cathy: Just put on some lube on the side of against the vagina and in the vulva or the anus. • Reid: Coz this is great for people who are like I don’t want germs! This will help. • Cathy: There’s a lot of sensation in the anus and so if you’re curious about it that is a real good way to do it. • Reid: Or if you a partner who doesn’t want to play down there but you would like them to play probably this is the thing that allows you to fix it. • Cathy: You could use it to fingers as well. • Reid: Other things to, I’m so sorry I have to go there if you want to play with somebody’s butt and they’re super hairy and you don’t like the feeling of hair in your face, tada, you have now solved it. It doesn’t feel like hair so that’s a free one, no extra charge. • Cathy: And probably less painful than waxing. • Reid: Don’t surprise wax people, not cool. • Cathy: Also if you’re playing with several people at the same time that are not fluid bonded and it sometimes hard to wash your face really quick like… • Reid: You don’t want to jump, you don’t want to run out of the bedroom to go wash your face… • Cathy: Gargle and then comeback. If you want to be able to switch back and forth in to different dams to dams one for each person allows you to enjoy that. • Reid: Don’t use the same dental dam on different people that coz now you’ve expose their body fluids and skin to the next person that’s not okay unless it’s okay with them unless what they’ve called fluid bonded. The other thing I wanted to share this is a big one when you’re going down on people don’t flip over your nose coz that way you’ll just suffocate, don’t do that it will get bad. You want to when you lay things on them this is important. • Cathy: That’s very important. • Reid: You want to give your nose room. • Cathy: I was just wondering how far you want to go in this suffocation thing. • Reid: He’s passed out. So you could make a room for your nose and then often I’ll try to use my hands to hold things in place but then again when you put lube the lube will also kind of help it kind of stick or cling to thighs and things like...

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