What to Talk About With Your Girlfriend 10 Easy Conversation Starters
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How do you talk to a girl - or a woman? These conversation starters make it easy and fun to find things to talk about with your girlfriend - even if you're on a first date. Conversation starters are helpful when you're shy and nervous about talking to people you're attracted to (which is normal!). • Making conversation will be easy, fun and interesting with these 10 tips on how to make conversation. And guess what? It’s easier than you think to find topics to discuss with your girlfriend at night, during the day, and even in text messages. Whether you're wondering what to talk about on a first date or how to talk to a girl you've known forever, you'll find something to say here. Bonus: these conversation starters are easy to remember because they're natural and simple. • “I love my girlfriend but I never know what to say to her,” says Sam on one of my blog posts about dating a woman who is older than you. “I don’t know how to talk to girls. I don’t want to talk about marriage or kids or the future. I just want to have a nice time, an interesting conversation. What do I talk about with my girlfriend?” • Show your girlfriend that you’re interested in her by talking about things that interest both her and you. If you’re not curious about who she is and what she thinks, then you can’t build a deep, loving, healthy relationship. It’s important to be curious about who she is, what she thinks, and how she feels. If you’re wondering what to talk about with your girlfriend, listen to what she says and ask questions about her life. Be sincere and honest in your goal to get to know her better. • Here’s the first thing to remember when you’re looking for things to talk about with your girlfriend: be curious about her. Ask how she spent her day, what she did, how she felt and what she say. Show your girlfriend that you’re interested in her by talking about things that interest both of you, and by developing a sincere and genuine curiosity about her life. The conversation starters below will not only give you lots of things to talk about with your girlfriend, they’ll make you a better listener. And that will make you a better boyfriend. • One of my favorite conversation starters is asking people about their childhood. Most of us love to talk about when we were kids – especially the happy memories of summer days or vacations or playing with friends. • If you’re looking for things to talk about with your girlfriend, don’t just ask, “What was your childhood like?” Instead, ask specific questions about her life as a kid. What did she want to be when she grew up? What was her favorite sport, game, or toy? Who was her best friend? What is her favorite memory • 3 Bonus Conversation Tips • I recently found a short but helpful video called “What You Should Talk About On a First Date, According to Research” on Business Insider. Since the video is only one minute long, I transcribed it. Here are the three main topics of conversation: • Share secrets. According to psychologist Arthur Erin of State University of New York, personal and emotional exchanges during dates promote feelings of connection. • Talk about traveling – favorite holidays or dream destinations. Psychologist Richard Wiseman conducted a study and found that talking about traveling is more interesting and bond-forming than talking about movies. Plus, you’re more likely to get into an argument if you talk about movies. Only 9%percent of couples who talked about movies went on a second date, as opposed to 18% of couples who talked about travel. • Choose controversial topics to talk about with your girlfriend, not dull topics. Politics, your most embarrassing moment, something you did that you’re not particularly proud of (although if you want to build a relationship with your girlfriend you might not want to spend too much time dwelling on things you’re ashamed of!). • Talking about controversial topics can make people happier with the conversation – if you stay calm, curious, and openminded. Also, if you talk about hot button issues like politics, you’ll definitely get to know your girlfriend better. • #conversationstarters #howtotalktogirls #whattosay
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