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Coercive Control is Domestic Violence
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Domestic violence and abuse is a wide range of behaviors, controls, manipulations and punishments that happen at home, but not out with friends. Coercive control is perhaps the most damaging extreme of emotional abuse, which can also often extend to physical violence. • So what is emotional abuse in a relationship? • It's belittling and demeaning, it's name-calling and blaming, it's shaming and guilting. It's control and isolation, it's confinement and deprivation. It's undermining your sense of self, your sense of what's right and wrong, it's gaslighting and hoovering, it's love-bombing and flooding. It's all the scary, horrible things you see in movies that you don't want to admit might be true in your relationship - with a partner, parent, ex, sibling... • Today, think about all these ways a person can be involved in domestic abuse. Are they happening to you??! • Domestic violence is not limited to physical abuse. It is much more than the US government now acknowledges since Trump quietly changed the definition on the Office of Violence Against Women website (and yes, this applies to male victims, too): • Original from April 2018 defined domestic violence as: • A pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone. • Current version: (still as of March 3, 2020) • The term “domestic violence” includes felony or misdemeanor crimes of violence committed by a current or former spouse or intimate partner of the victim, by a person with whom the victim shares a child in common, by a person who is cohabitating with or has cohabitated with the victim as a spouse or intimate partner, by a person similarly situated to a spouse of the victim under the domestic or family violence laws of the jurisdiction receiving grant monies, or by any other person against an adult or youth victim who is protected from that person’s acts under the domestic or family violence laws of the jurisdiction. • https://www.justice.gov/ovw/domestic-... • * Always remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * * • and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... from your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker. • ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ • I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor. • Looking for relief from the pain, confusion and drama of toxic relationships? Let's talk! If you're ready to stop tolerating abuse, and get strategies for changing your relationship dynamics, keep watching my videos, and when you're ready.... • Schedule an initial 1-hour consultation HERE for only $97. • http://www.transformingrelationship.c... • Are you in relationship with a Hijackal®? Someone who consistently behaves in ways that undermine you, put you down, make you crazy? I can help you understand that behavior and how to keep yourself safe and sane. • • I work worldwide, through private, secure video conferencing. I'd love to work with YOU. • WANT A SAFE PLACE--far away from social media--TO TALK, ASK QUESTIONS, GET EXPERT ANSWERS SUPPORT 24/7. Get access to Private Discussion Groups and direct answers to your questions, my eCourse, Emerge! 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy , curated videos, podcasts and articles, and other bonus content. Join my Optimize Circles: http://www.optimizecircles.com • CONNECT WITH ME, online: • Website: http://www.TransformingRelationship.com • Facebook: / relationshiphelpdoctor • Twitter: @RhobertaShaler • LinkedIn: / rhobertashaler • Instagram: @DrRhobertaShaler • YouTube: / forrelationshiphelp • Get my free ebook at http://www.Hijackals.com • #Hijackals #toxicpeople #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #stopenabling #difficultpeople #enablingabuse • • ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ • This content has been created and recorded for the general interest and information of the viewer/listener. Nothing said or implied on this site should be taken, or construed in any way, as legal advice, or personal advice of any kind. It is entirely informational, offering readers, viewers, subscribers, followers, and members educational resources, anecdotes, case studies, and stories. • Optimize Life Now LLC Rhoberta Shaler, PhD makes no representations about the suitability of the content of this site for any purpose. All content is provided “as is” without any warranty of any kind.
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