🚨 Struggling with a defiant or destructive child 🚨
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Need proven strategies for oppositional defiant disorder? Do you feel at your wit's end dealing with meltdowns, refusals, or even vindictive behavior? You aren’t alone—and there IS a way forward. • On Thursday, December 5th, we hosted The BEST Parenting Q A: Anything Goes! 🗣️✨ • This was a chance to ask tough questions—like, “What do I do with a child who refuses to follow directions and seems impossible to manage?”—and get real, actionable solutions. • 💡 Participants discovered practical tools to: • ✅ Navigate challenging behaviors • ✅ Build cooperation and respect • ✅ Create harmony in their homes • Every child has the potential to thrive, and every parent can guide them there with the right approach. Together, we turned struggles into breakthroughs! 🌟 • Parents asked tough, heartfelt questions, and together we explored real, actionable solutions to create harmony and cooperation at home and beyond. Here’s a recap of some key questions and insights shared during the session: • Holly: How do I get my 9-year-old, Drake, to stop disrespecting me? • Key Insights: • • Children mimic behaviors they see. Reflect on how you interact with your child—are there moments when you give abrupt orders or barge in? • • Role-play the respectful behavior you’d like them to emulate. Show Drake how to stand at attention and ask politely. Then, reward the positive behavior with a smile and attention while remaining neutral or calm when the undesired behavior occurs. • Kia: My 4-year-old hates school and has been suspended twice, once for hitting a teacher. What can I do? • Key Insights: • • Understand that behaviors are often a call for attention or missing skills. Ask yourself, What life skills is my child ready to learn? • • Role-play at home how to handle frustration or anger positively. Praise progress, even small steps, to help your child build confidence. • • Reframe challenges as opportunities: My child is ready to learn something new about managing emotions or boundaries. • Sharon: I have three kids (4, 5, 6) and struggle when they all need something at the same time. How do I manage? • Key Insights: • • Parenting is like music: just as songs rely on 12 notes, parenting relies on mastering essential principles. When some are missing, chaos can arise. • • Instead of reacting to demands, teach your children to manage their actions and belongings. Show them how the world works and help them believe in their ability to navigate it. • Melissa: My twin 5-year-olds fight constantly, use rude words, and hit each other. What should I do? • Key Insights: • • Let your children know that their inner thoughts, feelings, and desires matter to you. Validate! This helps them feel understood and valued. • • View complaints as opportunities. Are they missing motivation or a clear procedure to handle conflict? • • Role-play respectful communication and problem-solving, reinforcing positive behaviors with encouragement and modeling. • General Takeaways: • 💡 Parenting isn’t about perfection; it’s about practice. You wouldn’t expect to master piano in a day, so be patient as you learn to “Speak Kid.” • 💡 Reframe your thinking: challenges are signs your child is ready to learn new skills. • 💡 Empower your children by teaching them THEY are “in control” of their actions and belongings, just as you are. • Together, we can turn struggles into breakthroughs and empower parents to guide their children with confidence and compassion. 🌟 • Discover how to create a win-win environment and communicate with your children in a way that promotes cooperation—GUARANTEED. • Visit us at https://www.learntospeakkid.com for life-changing parenting resources to help you transform the most unruly and defiant child behavior into Healthy, Happy, Cooperative Kids! • As a valued member of our community, we invite you to join our exclusive VIP group. Here, you'll receive updates on events and training and be sent a link to be part of our free interactive Facebook group: https://www.learntospeakkid.com • ✅Start a new empowered parenting journey for FREE here: • https://creatingchampionsforlife.com/... • 🤝Work With Us: https://creatingchampionsforlife.com/... • 🌟Learn more about us: https://creatingchampionsforlife.com/... • ========================= • BOOKS! • ========================= • 🔰Get the Learn to Speak Kid Book: https://creatingchampionsforlife.com/... • 🔰Get The Path to Parenting Paradise (Raising Healthy, Happy, Cooperative Kids): https://creatingchampionsforlife.com/... • • ========================= • Connect with us! • ========================= • Follow us: • FB: ➡︎ / learntospeakkid • IG: ➡︎ / bonnieandthomasliotta • Tik Tok: ➡︎ / creatingchampionsforlife • LinkedIn ➡︎ / bonnie-and-thomas-liotta-13339480
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