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welcome to another edition of Lectures Revisited! In this series, I practice public speaking as a stutterer by reciting iconic speeches. Today, I’m reciting How to Speak so that People Want to Listen by Julian Treasure, a TED Talk with over 42 million views. • Original Speech: • How to Speak So That People Want to L... • #TEDTalks #JulianTreasure #HowToSpeakSoThatPeopleWantToListen #PublicSpeaking #VocalExercises #CommunicationTips • Have you ever felt like no one listens when you talk? Let’s explore why that happens and how to fix it. Treasure discusses the importance of the human voice, how to avoid common speaking mistakes, and how to build effective communication habits that resonate with others. • If you enjoyed this, don’t forget to subscribe for more iconic speech recitations! • • The human voice is the instrument we all play. It's the most powerful sound in the world—it's the only one that can start a war or say, ‘I love you.’ And yet, many people have the experience that when they speak, people don’t listen to them. Why is that? How can we speak powerfully to make change in the world? • I would like to suggest that there are a number of habits we have to move away from—what I call the seven deadly habits of speaking. This isn’t an exhaustive list, but these seven are pretty large habits that we can all fall into. • First, gossip—speaking ill of somebody who isn’t present. Not a nice habit. We know perfectly well that the person gossiping will, five minutes later, gossip about us. • Second, judging—you know people like this in conversation. It’s very hard to listen to someone if you know they’re being judgmental. • Third, negativity—it’s easy to fall into this. My mother, in her later years, became very negative. I once told her, ‘It’s a beautiful October 1st,’ and she replied, ‘Oh, isn't it awful.’ It’s hard to listen to someone who is constantly negative. • Fourth, complaining—this might as well be the national sport of the UK. Complaining spreads misery, not joy. • Fifth, excuses—some people never take responsibility and always blame others. It’s hard to listen to someone like that. • Sixth, embroidery or exaggeration—this demeans language. If everything is ‘awesome,’ what do you call something that truly is? Exaggeration often leads to lying, and nobody wants to listen to someone they know is lying. • Seventh, dogmatism—this is the confusion of facts with opinions. When someone is bombarding you with their opinions as if they were true, it’s difficult to listen. • These are the seven deadly sins of speaking, things we should avoid. But is there a positive way to think about this? Yes, there is. • I’d like to suggest that there are four really powerful cornerstones, or foundations, that we can stand on to make our speech powerful and impactful. Fortunately, they spell out a word: HAIL, which means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically. • H stands for honesty—being truthful in what you say, being straightforward and clear. • A stands for authenticity—being yourself, standing in your own truth. • I stands for integrity—being your word, doing what you say, and being someone others can trust. • L stands for love—not romantic love, but wishing others well. Honesty without love can be brutal. For example, telling someone they look awful today may be honest, but it’s not necessary. If you wish others well, it’s hard to judge them. You can’t do both simultaneously. • • 42,155,504 views Jun 27, 2014 #TED #TEDTalks #speech • Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Here's Julian Treasure to help you fix that. As the sound expert demonstrates some useful vocal exercises and shares tips on how to speak with empathy, he offers his vision for a sonorous world of listening and understanding. (Recorded at TEDGlobal 2013 on June 10, 2013) • If you love watching TED Talks like this one, become a TED Member to support our mission of spreading ideas: https://ted.com/membership • • Follow TED! • X: / tedtalks • Instagram: / ted • Facebook: / ted • LinkedIn: / ted-conferences • TikTok: / tedtoks • • The TED Talks channel features talks, performances and original series from the world's leading thinkers and doers. Subscribe to our channel for videos on Technology, Entertainment and Design — plus science, business, global issues, the arts and more. • Watch more: https://go.ted.com/juliantreasure • TED's videos may be used for non-commercial purposes under a Creative Commons License, Attribution–Non Commercial–No Derivatives (or the CC BY – NC – ND 4.0 International) and in accordance with our TED Talks Usage Policy: https://www.ted.com/about/our-organiz... • . For more information on using TED for commercial purposes (e.g. employee learning, in a film or online course), please submit a Media Request at https://media-requests.ted.com • • #TED #TEDTalks #speech
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