Why do I Feel So Angry

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As you know, anger is often a secondary emotion. Meaning that it’s used to protect us from something else we are feeling, such as humiliated, hurt, scared, rejected or anything that’s hard to admit we feel. Anger can seem safer than those emotions, and when asked what’s going on or how we are feeling, we can confidently say “I feel angry!” Or even if we aren’t comfortable feeling angry or saying that out loud, we can stew in it instead of admitting to ourselves that we are actually very hurt. In other words, whether we express our anger outwardly or not, it’s still there and more comfortable than the primary emotion. • For the most part, anger exists as a way for us to get out of any threatening situation and survive, that’s why when we feel vulnerable, hurt, or humiliated (for example) anger pops up and distracts us. It senses the threat of more hurt or upset and protects us. And if you hadn’t guessed this already, anger is triggered by our amygdala. You know, that part of our brain responsible for our fight, flight or freeze response. That’s why anger can often feel so out of control. • Shayla's patreon page: / shaylamaddox • I'm Kati Morton, a licensed therapist making Mental Health videos! • #katimorton #therapist #therapy • MY BOOKS (in stores now) • Traumatized https://geni.us/Bfak0j • Are u ok? http://bit.ly/2s0mULy • ONLINE THERAPY • While I do not currently offer online therapy, BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online therapist, please visit: https://betterhelp.com/kati • Join this channel to get access to perks: • / @katimorton • PATREON https://www.katimorton.com/kati-morto... • YOU CAN SUPPORT THE CHANNEL BY SHOPPING WITH OUR AFFILIATE LINKS • Instacart: https://www.instacart.oloiyb.net/y2j2GB • Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/shop/katimorton • PARTNERSHIP • Linnea Toney [email protected] • PLEASE READ • If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room.

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