4 ways moms become the fun sponge

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⚖️ How it can be different👇🏽 • 1.) Have defined tasks that each person is leading from A to Z so one person isn’t the sole delegator. It doesn’t have to be 50/50, it just needs to be fair and fair looks different for each family. • 2.) Organizing is a huge part of the Mental Load/ INVISIBLE labor. There is so much anticipation and planning that has to happen BEFORE a task gets done and this is the part that becomes draining. When you share responsibilities, each person takes over the Anticipation and Planning in addition to the Execution of the task. • 3.) If you don’t remind, it doesn’t get done, but if you remind, now you’re nagging- can’t win! When each person has their tasks, they own them from A to Z so ideally no one gets reminded of routine tasks. They just do them like a full functioning adult (setting their own reminders, etc.) • 4.) Being the timer for everyone and everything is a wear out IMO. We alternate routines each night and this keeps it level for being the “driver” of time. • 💫 If you feel like you don’t really have a solution for sharing the domestic/mental load with your S/O + need help navigating these convos, comment “MIRACLE” below and I’ll send you a link for my simple program to share the domestic/mental workload with your spouse! • Follow @ourhomeflows for more tips on how to share the mental load with your spouse and get more time back for yourself! 🧘🏻‍♀️ • #mentalload #momburnout #communicationskills #communicationtips #mompreneur #momlife #mom #mompreneur #motherhood #parenting #marriage #marriagegoals #marriageadvice #marriagetips #marriagehelp #marriagelife #workingmom #workingmomlife #exhaustedmommy #parentingadvice #newmom #momguilt #modernmotherhood #consciousparenting #cyclebreakers #ig_motherhood #toddlermomlife #honestmotherhood #momtruth #mentalloadofmotherhood

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